Old age home

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu how are you all Hope everybody is doing well by the grace of GodHope everybody is doing well by the grace of God I am also very good in your prayers Alhamdulillah today I will talk about the old age home

 

If we all notice one thing now we have parents or some older people we bring to this old age home but have you ever wondered if they are as young as we were 30 years ago?Was young

 

The parents who introduced us to the world showed us what they deserved from us today that we would bring them to the old age home

 

They built the house with their own hard earned money and we left them in the old age home from that house. Should we?

 

So is this the rule of today's society that those who are young now in their 20s and 30s have to go to the same shelter later?

 

And whether we look at it as a silent spectator or leave it to our fate to decide, is it not a matter of blaming fate?

 

What will the newborn child or their son or daughter learn from the boy and girl whose elderly parents left me in the old age home?Such an environment is created by young people like us in the society

 

If we create a bad environment in the society then our children will grow up bad from there and if we can create a good environment in the society then our children will grow up well. However, sometimes it is possible to find some good people from a bad society, but it is very rare

 

I want to say one thing about this

 

(Like lotus flowers blooming in the dung)

 

After hearing these words, many of you may ask why the Vidyashram was built, then you can blame the administration, but in this case, there is no fault of the administration. Here are some answers or solutions. I will tell you

 

Now let's all know what an old age home is

 

We all usually know more or less that the old age home is for the elderly There are various facilities for those who have a place to stay alone such as a room with a television, then a variety of sports equipment, then a park where they can take a short walk in the afternoon. There are bands in the park where they can sit and express their thoughts with each other

 

And the biggest thing is that some parents in our society don't have sons or daughters, or their sons and daughters leave the world before them, so it's worth watching them in their old age.So this old age home is usually open for them or the old age homes are open for them

 

Now let's find out what we have benefited from being an old age home

 

If we consider a human being, no matter how many bad aspects a person has, there is one that looks good There are some good aspects of the old age home, now I will tell you who they are There are some good aspects of the old age home, now I will tell you who they are Non

 

There are people in our society whose only child is seen to have died before them In any accident or in the activity of the provider In any accident or in the activity of the provider Those two husbands say wife or old man or elder says when they are 60 to 65 there is no one to take care of them So what happens to them is that with the death of our son, they also lose the value of survival, maybe someone with high blood pressure, someone with diabetes.

 

Yet they have to survive with so much pain in their chests and they can't find any way to get rid of this pain It may be a few years or so when they are 70 to 75 years old, they have nothing to do.

 

They can't cook the food they need to survive or the work they need to do to cook the food.Sometimes he raises his hand to Bidhata to get rid of all these troubles or sufferings that take me upstairs I have nothing to do Sometimes they say that there is no value in their survival because they will survive

 

There is a saying in our society that there is no need for a tree that does not bear flowers or fruit.So no one keeps that tree in our society, no one keeps that tree in our societySo no one keeps that tree in our society, no one keeps that tree in our society They compare their life to a tree. They have no value in survival. They compare their life to a tree. They have no value in survival.

 

Then one day they get the address and phone number of the old age home in an advertisement in the newspaper. From there they call that number and they live like this. When the money comes, we stay there.

 

1(Address of elders)

 

It is not that those who have been talking for so long did not have their addresses It has become difficult for them to survive in their long address

 

And they lost their son and broke down in tears. Their condition is getting worse day by day

 

They sell their old address or house and move on to the old age home. They have no sons or daughters, but they have people to look after them.

 

2(Good companions are found there)

 

It is true that everyone in the old age home lives in a separate room, but in the afternoon when everyone goes for a walk together in the park, everyone talks to everyone, our minds are refreshed and they talk when they find a good partner.Gradually they forget all the sorrows or hardships they have experienced in life and a new memory exists in them There is no shortage of our association. The doctors are with them. The nurses are with them. Who is with us?

 

3(It is like eating and drinking in the old age home)

 

They don't have to worry about eating and drinking since they go there. Breakfast, lunch, dinner.The joy of that time is different when everyone goes together and eats or talks while eating

 

4(Keeping physical fitness right)

 

There is a walk in the park whether it is in the morning or in the afternoon. There are a lot of people out there who have suffered so much in life that they have suffered so much. They don't want to do that at first. They think that they may not be able to walk in life.Walking with the people there also changes their lives, they also walk and exercise, it keeps them physically fit.

 

5(Stay in peace from a little distance from unrest)

 

There are some families in today's society where their elderly parents work hard to build a house for them but in their old age it becomes difficult for them to stay in their own home.Living together, thousands of questions are faced on a daily basis.And for a while, they got tired of answering these questions, and to escape the turmoil, they moved to an old age home, leaving their families behind.

 

6(There is a little relief from sorrows)

 

Today I will share with you a true story that is happeningToday I will share with you a true story that is happening Twice after we have a grandfather. I am now 60 or 62 years old. Last year he was able to have a husband, then three more sons and one daughter.Honors As long as I was alive, her three sons were under the control of his wife. When her husband died, her sons forcibly took away all her property from her and then started beating her and eating her.He stopped giving her medicine Despite doing all the household chores, she is abused. Her grandchildren are told that your grandmother is old-fashioned. Don't talk to me. All the old things are kept in her room.The boys also stay away from the mother After that he listens to everything and endures in silence and never protests She was given so much pain that even the people of the house could not bear to see her and then they all saw her and brought her to the old age home.

 

 

In this way, thousands of mothers and fathers in our society have lost their shelter and the shadow that was left over their heads was taken away from them.They will give up breathing but this is their dream Our dream tower is not fulfilled, the dream remains a dream

 

When they started a family at a young age, they went to the old age home, but everything has to be rebuilt. Our children don't take any more inquiries from them.

 

In old age they may have small whims but in today's society young people like us think it is extra whims and tell them a lot. They may ask them to go for a walk or go to the river. It becomes extravagant for us

 

Now let's find out why we need an old age home or the need for an old age homeNow let's find out why we need an old age home or the need for an old age home There are many children in our society who have no father or mother. They grow up on the sidewalk, so an orphanage has been opened for them. It is better to have an orphanage than to stay on the sidewalk.Everybody knows that there are so many benefits of an orphanage or a boy is on the sidewalk when he is on the sidewalk.

 

There are many parents in today's society who leave their child for their work and go out at 9 o'clock in the morning and come home at 10 or 11 o'clock at night.If you leave your child in an orphanage, many people may be shocked to hear me say this, but I will say one thing that when you think of leaving our parents in an old age home and coming home, your motherIf you leave your child in an orphanage, many people may be shocked to hear me say this, but I will say one thing that when you think of leaving our parents in an old age home and coming home, your mother Then you do not have a little trouble

 

 

There are some alternative aspects of old age home

 

One thing to note is that in our current society, the wives of those who are employed cannot tolerate their husbands' parents or in-laws for a long time, so I will tell those employees that where you areOne thing to note is that in our current society, the wives of those who are employed cannot tolerate their husbands' parents or in-laws for a long time, so I will tell those employees that where you are Rent a room for your parents in the same place or in the same building, whether upstairs or downstairs. If you can afford it, you can buy a flat.Your parents will be around you. They will be able to take care of you. They will be able to take care of you. This will never make them feel that you are away from us or that you are not caring for others.They will be happy with a lot of smiles will be good. They will be happy with a lot of smiles

 

 

Many helpless people find the last addresses of our lives because there is an old age home in our bones Many helpless people find the last addresses of our lives because there is an old age home in our bonesMany helpless people find the last addresses of our lives because there is an old age home in our bones Many helpless people find the last addresses of our lives because there is an old age home in our bones Trying to survive again, he tries to spend the rest of his life happily and comfortably

 

Finally, I would like to say one thing: those of you who have a supportive daughter-in-law should never send your parents or mother-in-law to an old age home.In this way, your children want to learn what you are doing. You are now sending others to the old age home. In the future, that old age home will be your last refuge, so please send some parents to the old age home.Don't send

 

Till today everyone is well and healthy Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh