There are two aspects to many things in our lives. For example, if we do one thing, then there are two possibilities, one is to lose and the other is to succeed. Those who work have these possibilities, but those who do not work have neither success nor failure.
So we have to come out of the thought that we have to be successful if we do any one thing. There is no guarantee that we will succeed in everything. So we can lose any task and there can be a lot of great success hidden in this defeat. We have to accept this.
As I have seen many of my friends have failed the job test in the small rank post. Once they would have failed the test but today they are doing a very good job. They got a much better job than the jobs they failed in the exams. So losing can be a blessing in disguise. Because if they could get a job in that small position and work there, there would be a time when they could not have a good job!
Everyone must remember the Titanic movie! Think about it, who is the luckiest in the movie 'Titanic'! Jack or Rose. Jack was the luckiest person to win a Titanic ticket through gambling. Is that really so. I don't think so. Or Rose that got a boyfriend like Jack who saved her in exchange for his own life. In this case also my answer is no. The man I think is most fortunate is the man who lost his Titanic ticket at gambling. As a result, his life was saved from a huge accident. This gambler is really lucky to have won even though he lost.
It is also seen in many areas of life that we keep losing again and again. Once upon a time we got something better than this. In fact, to be honest, people find something good at a time when they are losing. So if you lose in life, you should never get frustrated but you should find out the reason for that lose. Only then will we find our desired success. Moreover, we need to think positively that we have lost, maybe something better is waiting for us in our lives.
So we have to accept the defeat and accept that we must have some great motive behind this loss. Something better than this can wait in our lives. So if you lose, you have to think positively without getting frustrated.
10.576 SRY