Don't try to make yourself look like another person!

 

 

    In the course of life we ​​often follow others. We try to follow the lifestyle of others, hair style, clothes or movements. That is, sometimes we want to build ourselves up like another person.

 

In this way we lose our very existence by following others. But it is true that following someone else is not something to blame. But trying to change yourself by following others is not a good thing. Because not every human being is self-sufficient. We may like one or two aspects of those we follow, but they may also have bad aspects. But if we change ourselves like that or try to change ourselves, then those bad aspects will come to us one day.

 

Honestly we have a freedom of our own. When we give up this freedom and keep copying others, that freedom will be cut off and we will go into a closed life. As a result, there will be chaos or annoyance among us. As a result we will not feel comfortable.

 

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To give an example, let's say I like someone's clothes or hair style. But I may not feel comfortable in that dress or hair style. For example, one feels comfortable wearing shorts, but if I wear shorts, I may feel uneasy. One likes to have big hair, and I may dislike that. But I might like to see big hair on someone else's head. But if I follow him and do that, I may get bored at some point.

 

I'm not saying no one else can be followed. But I don't think it's right to change yourself like that person by following others. As a result, we will lose both our personality and our existence. We should accept the good aspects of those we follow or imitate. And bring them into your own. Thanks everyone.