Do you know where these thoughts come from?
These thoughts come from our family.
When we were children, our parents used to stop us from doing many things of our own choice, saying, "Don't do this, don't do that, people will say bad things, people will say bad things, people will laugh at us... by saying so many things, our family ends our free thinking. Then we wonder what people will think." We start thinking about it.
This problem mostly happens to the children of middle class families..They and their future generations stay in that middle class for life because they and their parents give more priority to these people.
If a middle-class boy and a high-class boy sit together in a restaurant, you will notice that the middle-class boy will use cutting spoons and knives so perfectly that he does not get the satisfaction of eating while doing it perfectly.. Why does he do that? He is afraid that people around him are watching him.
On the other hand you will see the college boy crawling around eating…getting stuffed with cheese in his hands and mouth…he is eating with great enjoyment…because he doesn't care at all about what people think.
I am a child of a middle class family..I also had to spend some time thinking about what people will think or not..But from the day I was able to realize things, I have achieved many new things in my life.
And yes one thing…people won't feed you or clothe you or people won't help you even by giving you two rupees in your bad times..then why are you so worried about what people will think??
Who are these people??Why do you respect them so much??
One day these people should not give any reply to verbal compliments, keeping in mind or what they think you used to do all the work… then they will call you stupid…
People will think many things.
You have thought a lot about people.. Now let people think about you.
583.337 SRY