In a love marriage, there are high prospects for each other. occasionally at least one of the couple has trouble persuading the family for the marriage. It becomes delicate to accept suffering from someone for whom you fought against your family.
Two people who made a pledge to stay together for the rest of their lives, who fell in love for 5 or 10 times, why did that pledge break after a many months of marriage? A long- lasting love. maybe the most talked about couple on the university lot. Six- seven times of love break up without turning into marriage. But why? A relationship is supposed to be fulfilled in a social bond like marriage, the moments of affection and love are supposed to be various. But also they couldn't live happily and peacefully?
A many days after getting married for love, a woman was shocked to discover a huge difference in the geste
of the same person as a nut and a hubby. He decided to break away from the incident of hindrance on freedom. It also happens that a man wants to immolate his life before marriage for a little fellowship of his cherished nut but her constant fellowship after marriage annoys him. He may suddenly lose hispre-marriage life and decide to disjoin. But why does this be? Assistant professor of psychiatry at Sir Salimullah Medical College and Mitford Hospital in Dhaka told about the reasons and what to do to avoid such an undesirable situation. Rashidul Haque.
inordinate prospects
In a love marriage, there are high prospects for each other. occasionally at least one of the couple has trouble persuading the family for the marriage. It becomes delicate to accept suffering from someone for whom you fought against your family. Indeed the fewest space in meeting prospects feels big. So he said,' I didn't anticipate this from you.'
Far from reality
still, you see only his positive aspects, If you love someone. But every human being has some or the other bad side, which comes to the fore after marriage i.e. after getting a endless mate. numerous people don't look into fiscal or social issues before marriage. numerous men do not bother about their nut's cuisine, but after marriage, someone can put it in his head,' Your woman
does not know how to cook. What will feed you?' The contrary also happens. The woman
may hear,' Your hubby does a small job. What will feed you?'
Someone you know is getting an precious gift from their partner, or they're going to travel abroad, but they aren't getting a gift or a' surprise' from their nut for so numerous times. perhaps both were scholars when they fell in love. After marriage, the job life is standingup.However, someone can decide to disjoin, If you do not have the intelligence to give that time. Some also lost the support of their family and fell into fiscalcrisis.However, the other can not accept it, If one of the couple wants to dominate.
false assurance
After marriage, a woman may face numerous obstacles regarding her plant, working hours, office stint or advanced education. Before marriage there may have been assurance of full freedom, but latterly some men changed due to family pressure. Or does commodity that hurts the pride. numerous men can not accept if the woman
has a high status job or if the woman
earns further. numerous people also lie about their socio- profitable status beforemarriage.However, it also comes out after marriage, If there's rapacity for wealth.
unbelief
annuity is born in love. That feeling is fulfilled in marriage. After marriage, a woman may find it delicate to fraternize with her old musketeers, especially if those musketeers are men. Men can witness analogous obstacles. A once crush on an old friend of the contrary coitus or a mistake from a youngish age can also shatter trust.
further aspects of family
Indeed moment numerous families in Bangladesh can not accept love marriage. Although Nimraji married this new member of the family, he conducted negatively latterly on. This geste
can affect the newlyweds.' Why did not you hear to my parents'- the public question can make anyone feel shamed. Indeed if the members of their own family find fault with their women
, numerous men remain silent allowing about family peace. A pall of pride also accumulates in this. As important significance was given to each other's quality before, in such a situation that significance can be lost.
Salvation
Not all love marriages lead to quick divorce. Those who take the responsibility along with love, but they live a life of love. Divorce can be for numerous small reasons, which can be answered if asked -
still, you have to be visionary, If you're upset about the relationship. Have a peaceful discussion. No matter how numerous storms come in life, we should come a place of trust for each other.
Must have a concession intelligence. For whom you have offered ahead, you want to arrange your future with him. Give significance to his wants andneeds.However, don't vacillate to tell your mate, If you're in temporary fiscal extremity. Let him know that you want to get through the delicate days with him. Make up for fiscal inconsistencies with love.
Do not be negative towards your mate. Give him support, give him time. Do not neglect.
still, cousins, neighbors and indeed close musketeers speak against the partner, If family. Getting into an argument with someone can make the situation worse. Always keep this feeling in your mind that the world- family is insignificant to him whom you love. Humans are good and bad.
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