
Bismillahir Rahmani Rahim.
Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah.
"A child who has the ability to tolerate his father's anger is sure to thrive."
Starting in the name of Almighty Allah, Hello dear friends! I hope everyone is very well, I am also very well Alhamdulillah and healthy.
What I will discuss with you today is how much a father does for his child. How hard earned money father gives to his son. But children think that earning money is very easy. So he blows away the money earned by his father's hard work, wastes it unnecessarily, spends it wastefully, but only a father understands how hard it is to earn money, how much hard work, a father earns money and runs the family and gives money from the hands of his son to his daughter. But if for some reason the son is not able to pay the money, then sometimes the son gets angry with the father, and says a lot.
Speaking of a middle-class family, I left out those who belong to lower-class families. A father of a middle class family earns three to four hundred rupees daily, maybe there are 4-5 members in the family, the father has to run the family with this income and the education expenses of his sons and daughters. Not only that, but also suffer from various diseases at different times and some money is also spent on doctors. So he cannot give that amount to his son to spend money unnecessarily. But the boy is a young man, his blood is hot, he will hang out with his friends and spend waste, he is not getting a chance.
So he got angry with father, but father told him.. son! If you have nothing to be angry about, try earning 50 rupees! The son laughs and says only 50 taka? This is dirt on my hands. And now earning money is not difficult. If you do something, only money and money. Wait, today I will bring you not fifty rupees but five thousand rupees and give it to you. After saying this, the boy went out, saw a man working as a mason while walking, the boy asked if he would take me for work. Rajmistri brother said yes, I will take it. I need an employee.
The boy said how much money to pay? Rajmistri brother said I will give three hundred rupees. Sileti said with a smile that I will do this for 300 rupees? never The boy started to move forward, at one point he got hungry in his stomach, now where will he get food? He has no money in his pocket. He then went to a hotel and begged very earnestly. Then the hotel owner told him about a job and would give him food in return. He then agreed and took some food in exchange for work and went back out into the streets. Finding nothing to do while walking, he sat down under a tree. But what will he do? Money must be earned. Meanwhile, the father has been challenged.
Suddenly a van driver was driving the van and he couldn't lift his van. Then he saw the boy looking around and called out. Now the boy approached and said I can push the van on the condition that I have to pay five thousand rupees. The vanwala said with a smile, son! 5000 rupees is so easy! Then he said then I have to pay 50 rupees. Seeing no other person, the van owner agreed to pay 50 rupees. Then he earned 50 rupees and went home.
As soon as he went home, his father asked him angrily, where have you been all day? Now the boy gave 50 taka in father's hand and said the rest of the money I have eaten at the hotel and you wanted this 50 taka so I brought it for you. Baba took 50 taka and said, throw this fifty taka into the well. Then the boy got angry and said that I earned 50 taka so hard and you are asking me to throw it in the well? By saying this he realized his mistake. So the boy repented to his father and asked his father for forgiveness. And said father I thought earning money was very easy, forgive me how much I have neglected you for this.
He understood that the child who has the ability to tolerate his father's anger is sure to improve. The day the shadow of the tree named Baba moves from the head, you will understand how difficult the reality is. Even if the sole of the father's foot is torn, he is able to buy new shoes for the child. He puts his child's needs first by keeping his own needs in mind.
Sometimes he might even get angry and tell us something. But think a little deeply about what the father said in anger and see that what he is saying is for our good, for our development.
That's why the first duty of a worthy son is to help his father without looking at his source of income.
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